So have you ever had any of the following crap experiences that suck the life out of you and make you lose faith in the male gender:
- Walked through a grocery store struggling with tons and tons of heavy bags and noticed that no guys ever even offer to help you. Only the old ladies offer to help
- Struggled to get a luggage up a bunch of stairs at the train station and the only person that offers to help is a fellow female while all the dudes just stare and watch like total fucking idiots
- Been bumped by guys who will not move over for you and your girlfriends as you walk down the street or through a store. They actually push you as they walk so that they have more space to walk through
- And finally of course, been in a coffee shop with scolding hot coffees in both your hands and finally got the door of the coffee shop open just enough to squeeze through and then suddenly a douche dude takes that opening walks right through the door into the coffee shop while you watch in total horror as the door closes right on your face while you are still in the coffee shop
So I guess the question is this, ”What the fuck is going on with dudes out there??? Is Chivalry dead”?? Are we as women destined to have a life of dealing with doing everything ourselves??
Well I have been struggling with this for the past few years and then it happened. Hope happened. Hope in the name of the “Dr. Sanjay Gupta”. I never actually watched this guy on TV in the past. He seemed like just another dude on CNN talking about stuff. I saw him as I flipped channels in between commercial breaks of my favourite latest teen trash vampire show.
Then one evening as I was sitting around eating the delicious new treat offered by Starbucks, the delicious Cinnamon Chocolate cake (and girls you have to try it) there was Dr. Sanjay Gupta on TV again talking about some new healthy thing people should be doing (which of course I will never do). But this time I actually stopped flipping and watched the dude. What I heard was shocking and amazing.
This dude had such serious concern in his voice for women’s health, women’s issues and the fact that women are now getting strokes at like 29 and 30 because of all the added pressures that women deal with like bearing children. He actually suggested that women restrain from sexual activity to prevent sex. OMFG did this guy…a guy…..suggest this on TV while his wife watched. So there is actually a guy out there who would put a chicks health over his own dick!!!!
So as I stuffed my face with this amazing chocolate cake I just fell deeply in love with this Dr. Sanjay Gupta person. I mean this is the kind of guy who would go beyond helping you carry groceries to your car he would actually make you dinner after a long day of work. He would actually listen to your problems rather than bore you with all his crap ass issues and then fall asleep as soon as you started to talk about your stuff. Well let’s face it Dr. Sanjay Gupta makes way too much money to ever have to make dinner. He probably has some famous chef like Wolfgang Puck making him dinner every night…but you get the point.
So maybe just maybe if there is one Dr. Sanjay Gupta out there…maybe there are more like him and maybe there is that nice, kind, caring, brown, rich doctor who would actually say to us girls at the end of the long hard day at work….”Sweetie lets just sleep tonight…we can have sex another time when you are less tired”. Maybe chivalry is not dead after all. Thank you Dr. Sanjay Gupta. Thanks for keeping Chivalry alive.
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